Hi, I’m New Here

I’ve been intrigued with Peanut Butter on the Keyboard since earlier this summer, when Kieran first shared the site with a group of fellow authors. I’ve found the posts funny and sincere, warm and heartbreaking and courageously honest. When Kieran put out a call for “Guest Moms,” I jumped. I wasn’t sure what I was going to write about, but I knew I wanted to write something. I watched the days tick by, “my day” drawing ever closer. I started to panic. I felt pressure. Day by day I read the posts, and smiled. Holy cow, WHAT was I going to write about?

Then, one day—one day REALLY close to “my day”—I sat down with a yellow tablet and a pencil (how I write my blogs) and words started to flow. That’s probably one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned during my writing career. Even when the conscious mind is blank or fried or overwhelmed by back-to-school shopping and referring screaming matches and Lego wars, the subconscious is steadily and dutifully doing its thing. When the time is right, the words (or scene, or plot point) will be there. It. Just. Will.

So! I blogged with PBOTK earlier this month about something near and dear to my heart: Mom Guilt. I slanted the blog toward Writer Mom Guilt, since that’s the life I’m living. But then the most amazing thing happened. All sorts of women posted comments, not just writers. I had friends and neighbors come up to me. I had a few shoot me emails. One approached my husband and told him she cried. And I…I exhaled. Whew. I’d done it. I found something of note to blog about.

Wellllll, it seems I’m not done yet. Shortly after my guest post, PBOTK approached me about becoming a regular poster, and to say I was blown away excited is a severe understatement. I was thrilled. Motherhood and writing are my life. Quirky stories about the bizarre ins and outs, ups and downs, of raising children, creating story worlds, and trying to stay sane fill my Facebook page (my original writing name: Jenna Aucoin Mills). I’m SO excited to join this group of wonderfully warm, talented, courageous women, and I hope I can live up to the awesomeness that is PBOTK.

A few of the PBOTKers suggested I throw a few things out there about me, so I sat down to make a list (one of my FAVORITE things to do.) My goal was 10 Random Facts, but, um, well, apparently conciseness isn’t my thing.

So instead, here you go: 25 Random Things About Me

  1. I’ve lived in Texas 20 years, but will always consider Louisiana home.
  2. I never knew love could be so big or terrifying until I had children.
  3. I wrote Romantic Suspense (as Jenna Mills) for ten years before a bizarre dream detoured me into Young Adult.
  4. I gots Cajun blood in my veins, which sometimes boils over into a Cajun temper.
  5. I’m a conspiracy theory junkie.
  6. I’m so unromantic it’s not even funny. (Just ask my husband.)
  7. I will never grow tired of watching The Last of the Mohicans, Gladiator, or Raiders of the Lost Ark.
  8. I’m obsessively into sports, in particular Texas Rangers baseball and football played by the LSU Tigers and New Orleans Saints.
  9. Snow is beautiful, but I’m not very nice when I’m cold. (Just ask my husband!)
. Give me heat any day.
  10. I get my feelings hurt too easily.
  11. I’m a worry wart.
  12. I REALLY hate disappointing people.
  13. I think Some People Who Shall Not Be Named sometimes wish I came with an edit button.
  14. I miss my grandparents terribly.
  15. I love cats, have 3 of them.
 And then there’s this big white dog…
  16. I tend to be a “just in time” kind of person; I’m never early.
  17. I have a serious thing for old castles, so much so that I once, kinda,  broke into one.
  18. I dreamed of airplanes flying into buildings for years before 9/11. Haven’t had that dream since.
  19. I always thought the Professor and MaryAnn totally needed to get together.
  20. I have this little problem with conformity….i.e. I don’t much like being told what to do….i.e., I totally wouldn’t be one of the sheep going over the edge.
  21. I don’t mix my foods. Ever.
  22. I believe in all that stuff that can’t be proved.
  23. I worship JJ Abrams and miss Lost soooo much!
  24. My kids are the greatest gift, the greatest joy, in my life.
  25. I love rain and wind and thunder and lightning, the first warm kiss of spring and the first cool whisper of fall, family, friends and animals, dreams, happy endings, red wine, dark chocolate and warm gooey chocolate chip cookies.
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17 thoughts on “Hi, I’m New Here

  1. Welcome, Ellie! I know you will have fun with “the gang” here. I can assure you that I really do have peanut butter on my keyboard because I love to have an apple with peanut butter for lunch every day as I’m messing around on my computer. Therefore, It’s inevitable.

    I love your honest input on who you are. I have to laugh and nod my head in agreement with many of your comments.

    Hope you enjoy visiting with us every day. It’s a lot of fun!

    • Thanks, Connie! I WISH I had peanut butter on my keyboard, but alas, my little boy is allergic. Yikes! My husband and I felt like sneaky kids last year at a playoff baseball game which our little boy didn’t attend, when we could finally indulge in roasted, salted peanuts. Yum!!!

      I’m looking forward to being here. Thank you!

  2. Hi ellie!I just discovered PBOTK through a blog I read regularly. And am glad i did. it seems like the kind of people I like to read. Found myself nodding to almost everything you said. The bit about your subconscious mind doing its job!!! so true…. Our experiences as mom seem so different on the surface . depending on the country we live in , our ethnicity etc. but underneath there is so much in common. The shared experience of motherhood and then the shared experience of being people interested in reading and writing gives us so much in common. Looking forward to reading more from you

  3. Okay doofus moment here…I totally know you! I don’t think I put two and two together, but I met Jenna Mills a million years ago at either the DARA conference or the SARA Merritt conference. It was the Louisiana thing that clicked for me b/c I know we’ve talked about that. I’m cajun too, from both my parents – they’re from Vinton. In any case, we’re so glad you’re joining us as a full-time mom blogger! Yeah, welcome, welcome!

    • Yes, Robyn…yes! Your name is **very** familiar. It could have been a DARA conference OR the SARA Merritt conference. Once upon a time, before my life turned into a frog in a blender, I did both of those!!! Funny how little ones can change everything! Two Cajuns on PBOTK: we might just blow the thing up!

  4. ladies I have nothing but admiration for you…. being old it was a long time ago when I brought up my children. We considered it a full time job just to run a home and bring up children so where do you get the energy from to have successful careers outside the home and take care of your families… hats off to you

    • Hi, there and thank you so much for stopping by. Motherhood *is* a full-time job, isn’t it? Very few jobs are as emotionally, physically, mentally, and creatively exhausting, and yet NONE are as emotionally, physically, mentally, and creatively rewarding. I try to remind myself of that during those moments when I want to pull my hair out or run for the closest bottle of wine.

      I slipped over to your blog and saw the pic of your precious granddaughter. Sooooo sweet. My kids are the only grandkids on my husband’s side, and my daughter, the oldest, didn’t come along until my mother-in-law was 67. I LOVE watching the bond between them. Beautiful stuff! Keep loving that little girl, an ocean apart, or not!

  5. Hi Ellie! So glad to have you with us!!! And wow, I really identified with a lot of things on your 25 list. =) Especially the being cranky when I’m cold and not mixing foods (I’m still trying to overcome this with my salads, lol). Loved this post, too!

    • Omigoodness, Elise. Salads drive me nuts. So do shish kabobs–and Chex Mix. I recognize this probably means there’s something wrong with me, as does my habit of arranging my closet by color, but there you go. VERY glad to know I’m not alone in my idiosyncrasies :) I’m also very glad to be here with you all :)

  6. So glad to have discovered Peanut Butter on the Keyboard- (though my stickiness of choice is Ben&Jerry’s ice cream… still… what a wonderfully supportive, fun site. Congrats, Ellie! I look forward to reading your blog posts :)

  7. Ellie, you’re so sweet and funny! I love that you’re on the blog now…and what does it mean that I delight in mixing my foods? I’m always recommending to my family things like, “If you take a forkful of mashed potatoes and stick it in the corn then dip it in the gravy, it’s HEAVEN!” And I even have a character doing that in a chick lit manuscript under my bed.

    I could talk widja all day, but I have to get back to that manuscript. Oh, but I’m also sneaking a trip up to my daughter’s dorm an hour and a half away today. I’ll be sitting in the back seat writing while my husband drives. And it’s because there’s a nip in the air, and I feel autumn coming on, and my daughter wants to show off her dorm room to us, and I can’t resist going!!! But that’s the great thing about being a writer–you can take the job with you, but you have to be disciplined.

    My greatest challenge right now is discipline. I’m going to be blogging about that soon. I have a feeling you’ll have some great ideas for me–you and your colorized closet, LOL!!!

    I wanted also to commiserate with you about the peanut allergy. My son can have those, but he can’t have TREE nuts. And you wouldn’t believe how many people in our lives think we’re just over-reacting or making this up, that he can have a potential deadly allergic reaction. So we have to read every label in the universe and avoid all homemade baked items at school because so many times we’ve encountered well-meaning people who bring stuff in, but when you actually track down the ingredients…they have the tree nut warning.

    Another blog post, right?!?

    Okay, Ellie, I can’t wait to hear more from you. So thanks again for being such a wonderful spark here on PBOTK.

    Hugs to you and to ALL the fabulous moms who come here to share their stories, find some solace, and also comfort and support each other…that’s the part I find the most touching of all.

    Kieran :>)

  8. Ellie, we are so thrilled to have you with us. I didn’t know you were in Texas! That makes 4 of us! Elise is from Texas, so she kind of counts, too, right? Thank you for jumping in and for sharing your fun facts. I totally agree about The Professor and MaryAnn.

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