Poetry and Kids Go Together

Let’s talk poetry.

Hark! I hear crickets chirping!

:>)

But I think you’ll find it’s not a boring topic at all, especially when we talk poetry and kids. Poetry and kids go together like peanut butter and jelly. I predict you’ll be so revved up by the time we’re through chatting, kids across the land this week (whose moms read PBOK) are going to find themselves reading and writing poems like crazy.

Oh, I hope so!

Think back….

How many of you reveled in those Mother Goose rhymes when you were really little? I still remember squatting on my haunches in the driveway, holding a huge, dog-eared book of poetry, and basking in a gorgeous picture and the text of the poem about Wynken, Blynken, and Nod. It was one of my favorites. And I distinctly remember turning all those large pages to make friends again with the characters and props I encountered in other poems: Jack and his candlestick, the old woman in the ginormous shoe (she especially fascinated me), as well as bakers, buns, broken eggs, cats under thrones, black sheep, spiders, and princesses.

Later in fourth grade, I had to memorize Robert Frost’s “Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy Evening” and Robert Burns’s “My Heart’s in the Highlands.” In fifth grade, it was “Casey at the Bat:” The outlook wasn’t brilliant for the Mudville nine that day….

I still love rattling off the few lines I remember.

Big sigh. I want to take the time to go back and memorize “Casey at the Bat” again. I want the whole thing to be mine once more. Let’s add it to my list of challenges, and may I move it to the top!

Ah, poems and their cadences and their bursts of imagery and their messages! They’re every child’s delight. Older kids—and I mean high schoolers–might at first pretend they’re not, but just open a book of Shel Silverstein poems and see what happens at any age. And then those high schoolers really get into modern poetry in a big way. They find it in song lyrics, too, and go especially crazy for love poems and anything about discovering their identities.

When I taught school, poetry units were the segments of learning that every single child bought into. If that doesn’t tell you something about its power, I don’t know what does.

For a long while in the educational world (post-1960’s), memorization of poems was considered grunt work not worthy of our darling young population, but the practice is coming back strong as teachers realize the value of memorization—but also the value of “owning” a poem. What a feeling of accomplishment and pride I got from knowing the words to a poem!

Heck, I’m still proud and still “own” my poems. I even put “My Heart’s in the Highlands” in my fourth book for St. Martin’s Press, If You Give a Girl a Viscount. As a matter of fact, all my Impossible Bachelors series books contain poems.

Why?

Because poems we learn in our childhoods are like ice cream cones. Brief moments in which we stop everything we’re doing to experience a passing pleasure. But these are special moments, too, in that they also carry the cozy weight of warm memories.

So however old your child is, read poetry together–and write it. Put your favorite poems—both your own and well-known, beloved ones–up on your walls. And don’t forget that a lot of poetry has a visual aspect to it. You can do acrostic poetry, for example, where you write a word like LOVE vertically, and then horizontally across the page, you write lines that start with L, then O, then V, and then E. Or you can write a poem about a snake and make the words look like a snake curling itself up or dancing across the grass. You can also make your own books of poems, with themes. Summer, Winter, Spring, and Fall are great themes to start with. Kids can collect poems for each season, both ones they discover in published books of poetry and ones they write themselves. They can add drawings, and you can laminate the book and keep it forever.

There are tons of books on the internet—and free articles often written by teachers–about how to get kids writing and reading poems. Check with your classroom teacher, too. He or she will have great ideas.

In high school, I lived in a very old trailer while our dad built our house. It wasn’t the Taj Mahal. But to cheer it up, on our kitchen cabinets, I taped colorful pieces of construction paper displaying poems from my favorite poets. In college, I did the same thing. I was annoyed with how much reading I had to do one semester, so on my bulletin board I put up the poem about the astronomer who dumped his books and went outside to look at the stars.

(Whoever first names the title of that poem and its American author in the comments section will get a signed book from me).

Many of you might already memorize Bible verses, which I consider some of the most beautiful poems in the world. Even if you don’t read the Bible for religious reasons, it’s considered a part of the canon of great literature. So check out Psalms in the Old Testament. It’s rockin’ with beautiful imagery!

All righty, now, the teacher in me is crossing her fingers that you’ll be sharing some poems with your kids over the next month. I hope you’ll get a Shel Silverstein book if you don’t have one already. And then there are the sweet, old-fashioned poems you can find in anthologies like The Children’s Book of Virtues and on kids’ poetry shelves at your nearest bookstore. Don’t forget e.e. cummings, too, and all those poets whose poems, chock-full of powerful imagery, don’t necessarily rhyme.

Finally, pull out the Mother Goose. Some of those poems are strange, aren’t they? But it’s good for kids to imagine worlds in which giant eggs can fall off walls, cows can jump over the moon, and dishes can run away with spoons.

Albert Einstein once said: “Imagination is more important than knowledge.”

I think that’s a bit of poetry right there, don’t you?

And now I’d love it if you share with us in the comments your thoughts, your memories…anything you want to say about poems!


Kieran Kramer, Merry Mama

Hi, I’m Kieran. My family loves music and anything that makes us laugh out loud. I try to teach my kids that we have to actively choose happiness–and if I accomplish nothing else as a mom but pass that one lesson along to them, then I think I’ve done my job.

My oldest guy, Dragon, was diagnosed in kindergarten with Asperger’s syndrome, and now he’s a junior in college; his sister Indie Girl, who’s younger by 16 months, is a college sophomore; and my youngest, Nighthawk, is in ninth grade. My kids are great people–and they turned out that way even though I wasn’t June Cleaver. For our family, it’s about managing your weaknesses and wringing everything you can get out of your strengths. And along the way, finding joy.

www.kierankramerbooks.com

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22 thoughts on “Poetry and Kids Go Together

  1. When I Heard the Learn’d Astronomer by Walt Whitman?

    My 5 year old loves “Where the Sidewalk Ends” and both my girls enjoy every single Mother Goose rhyme. There’s something magical about it!

    • You got it, Julie.

      Congratulations!!!

      Just email me at kkramerbooks@aol.com, and I’ll send you a signed copy of one of the following: 1) Dukes to the Left of Me, Princes to the Right, 2) Cloudy With a Chance of Marriage, or 3) If You Give a Girl a Viscount.

      Yes, isn’t Where the Sidewalk Ends awesome? I like the pictures in all his books, too.

      :>)

  2. Okay, Kieran, you are a way cooler mom than I am. (I think I knew that already though.)
    So far, I have made no attempts to immerse my kids in the world of poetry. Not even nursery rhythms really. But today, in honor of you, I will pull out Mother Goose and we will get down that.
    As I was reading your post, I remembered that my mother used to recite her favorite poems for us in the car when my dad was driving at night, mostly The Highwayman, which has such a great description of the moon, but sometimes The Lady of Shalott.
    I still think of The Highwayman any time I see clouds drifting in front of the moon …
    The road was a ribbon of moonlight over the purple moor
    The moon was a ghostly galleon tossed upon cloudy shores

  3. Ooo, see, Emily? You remember lines from that poem!!! I love them!!! It’s like you gave me a little present of words. Thank you. :>)

    And you are so WAY cooler than I am!!! So imagine how great you’ll be once you get into poetry yourself and with your kids.

    Thanks for checking in, and let me know how it goes with Mother Goose. If they turn up their noses at those, then I really, REALLY think some Shel Silverstein is in order.

    Can you tell how excited I get about poetry? I never thought I’d be so crazy about it. But it does resonate with people, so much, when they give it a chance. Why? I think part of it is magic. Rearranging words into poems is something that has to come from a deep, mystical part of ourselves. It’s almost like casting a spell.

    But that’s just one way of looking at it. I don’t want the spiritually inclined among us to be scared of poetry, like it’s some mumbo-jumbo, LOL!!! You could also say we have to tap into the divine, into our soul, etc., to create a poem.

    Because it just ain’t your average putting together of words. It comes from someplace else. Oh, yeah. Even poems like “Casey at the Bat,” which is about a man who comes up to bat with two outs in a little local ballgame, or any of those crazy poems by Shel Silverstein.

    So anyway, just thinking about you thinking about your mom and The Highwayman when you see the clouds going over the moon gives me little goosebumps of joy. If that’s possible. LOL!!!!

    Thanks again, Emily. Have fun with the poems!!!

  4. My 12 year old daughter loves poetry. And I love that she can discover bits of wisdom in them that I’d never seen before. Or even better, she’ll write one that gets me right in the heart. Her latest was this:

    If we all live one day,
    If we all die one day,
    Are we indivisable?
    But if we can define the in between,
    Are we individual?

    • Wow, Tracy!!! That poem is so beautiful and DEEP! And it came from a 12-year-old. My goodness, that’s what I LOVE about poetry. Floating around in our kids’ young brains are all sorts of thoughts, all kinds of special wisdom that can be tapped via poetry!!! Thanks for sharing!!!

      I still remember writing a poem when I was about that age. I remember the theme was, “It’s so hard for me to comprehend that the world came before me and will be here when I’m gone.” I don’t remember anything about my poem but the last line: “Life can’t live without me.”

      It was the typical last-minute plea of an egocentric child begging to be noticed as she grows up and her world unfolds and becomes HUGE–so much bigger than she is! This consciousness begins about that time in a kid’s life–age 11 or 12–and it parallels brain growth. I know many moms whose kids, right around 6th grade, start developing fears…because they know now. They know the world is large and that they are small and will have to find a way to survive in it.

      Anyway, a teacher corrected my poem to read, “Life can’t be lived without me.” And no. That’s not what I wanted to say. That was so passive. I remember resenting her so much!! I truly meant that LIFE can’t live without me, LIFE being almost a creature personified, made up of all the teeming world and roaring!! It had to be active, the way a great beast was active! She didn’t get it. I was the only one who knew what I was talking about, and that was okay. Not all poetry has to be comprehensible to other people. It reflects a deeper layer in ourselves, capturing bits and pieces of us, like light flashing on water.

      I still remember the strong passion I felt when I wrote that poem. I loved life so much, I didn’t want to ever separate from it. That line has stuck with me through thick and thin, through really hard times that sucked, times when LIFE was just a big ole mess. And I would remember that roaring beast.

      And that’s why I love poetry.

      As a teacher, I was always very careful when I read kids’ poems. They come straight from the heart. There are no wrong words to say. Sometimes, if we were experimenting with a form, like a simple acrostic, if someone messed up the structure, I would have to correct it because I had an objective to teach as presented by the school district. But never the sentiment. Never the quirky way the kids expressed themselves.

      Tracy, I hope your daughter has a special book in which she captures all her wonderful poems and preserves them forever. And who knows? By nurturing this part of her, she might very well discover important things about herself long before she would have otherwise. Writing poems might lead her to a certain career, even. At the very least, poetry will help her express the inexpressible HER WAY.

      Thanks again for sharing that wonderful poem!!!

  5. I love the poetry of children’s books. It really gets their attention when things rhyme. I volunteered to read to children in the school library when my children were attending the American School of Paris. I enjoyed that so much and remember the enthralled looks on the children’s faces.

    My daughter is a Kindergarten teacher and is so talented in that she can conjure up all kinds of accents when she reads to her students. They sit mesmerized and when she finishes the book, they yell for more!

    When we get children interested in books and wanting to read them by themselves, then we hopefully have hooked a lifetime reader!

    Thanks for your post, Kieran. As I’ve said before, I love your novels!! Like little children, the mischief in the eyes of the characters on the covers makes me smile!

    Connie Fischer
    conniecape@aol.com

    • Thanks so much for the sweet words about my books, Connie! And I love the sound of your daughter. Bless all the great teachers of the world! She sounds amazing! She’s teaching those children to associate joy with reading. Many, many thanks to her for that. And to you, too! She must have learned how to do that from her mother. Enthralled is such a happy place to be, isn’t it?

      I read to kids at Barnes and Noble a couple of times in my nightgown. That was SO much fun. Kids rock, kids rule. I really should be doing more with them. I love my novel writing career, but I really have to find a way to get back in the classroom or at least somewhere I can connect with kids and reading. I’m thinking one way might be to write a book for kids. I could combine my two loves….

      Thanks again, Connie, for stopping by! It’s great to see you at PBOK!!!

      XO

  6. There are some poems I just adore. I could never write poetry and don’t really read it for pleasure, but I’m thankful I was forced to read some in school.

    A year or so ago, I went to a literacy workshop, and the instructor talked about research that showed nursery rhymes helped a lot with pre-literacy. Baby Galen loves nursery rhymes, and I definitely see how learning them has advanced her speech and comprehension.

    • Yes, and it will do wonders for her imagination. Imagination is what makes us able to make connections between two seemingly disparate things. This is an invaluable tool to have in the workforce. It separates the creative thinkers and problem solvers from the automatons. That may seem a little harsh, but do you know what I mean? Some people react. People with imagination act. They become leaders in their field. They’re often self-starters. So I recommend using poetry to foster imagination as well. :>)

  7. I’ve always been a big fan of Shel Silverstien and could even quote most of his work at one time. My sons loved Dr. Suess’ poetry and one even used him when taking a high school English class that spent a whole semester on poetry. He got an A for going someplace else besides modern lyrics.

    • That’s terrific, pics4!! Good for your son for thinking out of the box!! And how could I have neglected to mention Dr. Seuss? Thank you SO much for bringing him into the conversation. :>)

  8. Well, we are an odd family. I am sitting in my husband’s office, surrounded by eight tall bookcases of poetry–which he needs for his work!

    I wrote and illustrated a book of poetry when I was 8, which my wonderful school librarian (RIP, Mrs. Collier!) put in her library, with a circulation card and everything. I had a card catalog entry! How cool was THAT for an aspiring author?

    We are big poetry readers. sharers, and memorizers.It becomes a wonderful shared language. One of the kids will make a reference to a Jack Prelutsky poem, and the rest of us know just what he means. My then-14-year-old read “Leaves of Grass” last year. For fun. Someday maybe he’ll explain it to me.

    The part of your post that resonated with me most was the notion of “owning” poems you’ve memorized. I feel the same way about the poems I know by heart (I memorized a lot of Dorothy Parker and Edna St. Vincent Millay as a teenager).

    • Amanda, I can tell I’d love to hang out with your family! I’d love to know your husband’s work. Does he teach poetry classes?

      As for Mrs. Collier, what an angel librarian. Sweet validations like that can make such a difference in how a child perceives himself or herself!

      I’m glad you understand how I feel about “owning” those poems. It’s like when you have a closet shelf lined with beautiful purses. Each one has its own story, and you pull it out depending on how you feel that day. If I could, I’d have a shelf of “my” poems lined up like that–great conversation starters, little comforts….

      My oldest child in high school took to Dante’s Divine Comedy. He’d read a bit of it in a class, and then he got really into it on his own. My college boyfriend was totally into William Blake and gave me a beautiful book with some of his engravings that I wish I could find.

      My all-time favorite poet is Robert Frost. Simple and direct. Very American. But I love so many others. I love it all!!!!

      • Wait. I take that back. Emily Dickinson is my all-time favorite. And I know Frost has a lot of dark nuance in his poetry, but I most appreciate it for its simple truths.

      • My husband is a freelance permissions editor. It’s not one of those things that are easy to explain at school career days. I’d post a link to his website as an explanation if I weren’t worried that might seem crass. But among other things, he handles reprint permissions for The Edna St. Vincent Millay Society, a job I’m sure 17-year-old me would have found totally HOT. :-) (No, I’m not kidding. I really was that geeky.)

        • That’s so cool, Amanda! For more insight, I looked up what a freelance permissions editor is–it sounds like a very tough but interesting job!

          We’ve got some really neat people here at PBOK. I learn from our readers all the time.

          :>)

  9. Love poetry, and I remember on poem from childhood that is my favorite Ogden Nash.

    The one-l lama,
    He’s a priest.
    The two-l llama,
    He’s a beast.
    And I will bet
    A silk pajama
    There isn’t any
    Three-l lllama.

    My favorite poet during my college years was Diane Wakowski – Waiting for the King of Spain, is her book of poems that I love.

    My daughters first grade teacher was excellent about having the class recite poetry. I

    • What a cute poem! I love Ogden Nash. He was a smart aleck and very clever. And I’ll have to find a Diane Wakowski collection. I’ve not read her. I always like finding new poets.

      Thanks, Gayle, for sharing!

      :>)

  10. I recently pulled my Shel Silverstein books out of storage and put them on a shelf in the living room so I could start reading them to the girls. Haven’t started yet, I thought they might be too young, but you’ve convinced me to start. What a great blog, Kieran, and it makes such sense b/c I loved poetry as a child.

    • Oh, great, Robyn!!! Kids love being read to, and the wonderful cadence of poetry is so comforting. Your little ones will love to hear you read poems aloud!! :>)

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